Introducing my new boyfriend....

I don't usually talk about the guys I'm into on my blog, but I'm really excited about this one, so I thought I should give him a shout-out.

He's tall (6'7") athletic (as noted by his profession) and so incredibly HOT! I'm pretty sure he has alot of money, but I haven't hacked his bank account yet, *ahem* I mean, we haven't talked about money yet. It's still too new for that.

Please meet Kyle, my new boyfriend.



Now, Kyle is a little younger than me, but he's incredibly mature, so it's something we can work through. In fact, we often look to Demi and Ashton as our role models for how to make this relationship work, which is really handy since Kyle looks so much like Ashton. I"m including pics of both so you can see the resemblance.


Kyle (my boyfriend)


Ashton (Demi's husband)

I was going to include pics of me and Demi to show you how much we look alike but I didn't want to hurt Demi's feelings or make her feel inferior. I'm really compassionate like that.

Anyway, Kyle is just super and our relationship is getting stronger and stronger. I've seen him twice at the Smiths by my house and once at the Gateway. He waved to me in the car once, too, and I'm certain it was because he thinks I'm hot and not at all because I ran in front of his car so he had to swerve to miss me. And I'm certain he always waves with his middle finger...I think it's something french. He's very sophisticated, my Kyle. I really like that about him.

Anyway, he is really great and we are very happy. I don't get to spend much time with him now, since he's in the middle of his season, but it's great because I can do my own thing. I'm independent like that, which he really likes. But no matter how busy I am, I always cuddle up on his couch wearing his creighton jersey to watch him play ball, and I know he likes that. I make sure to fold his shirt up just like he had it and turn the alarms back on when I leave. I only had to break a window that once, and he was totally understanding. He didn't even give that police detective my name, and I know he has it in his phone. I snuck into his house in the middle of the night to program it for him. That's the kind of girlfriend i am....always thinking of my Kyle and trying to make his life a little easier, but not really needing the thanks. He works so hard, I just want to help.

Well, just wanted to let my blog friends in on my new relationship. I know you guys wish me the best and I'll try to bring him along caroling this holiday season. I have a weekend all picked out and he'll for sure be in town because it's a bye weekend, so just plan on us showing up at your house singing Christmas Carols. He might look a little freaked out, and ask you to call the cops because he's been kidnapped and forced to sing random Christmas songs to people he doesn't know, but he's just kidding. He's funny like that. Also, the handcuffs....they are just a fashion statement.

Gratitude Friday

James and I at the TCU/UU football game .....see what i mean? Old friends are the best!

A reader emailed me this week and asked me if I only think about the things I am grateful for on Fridays. The answer to that question is No, Absolutely not. I try to take the time to notice and be grateful for the many, many, MANY good things in my life on a regular basis. I try to build a regular practice of gratitude into my life by doing small things such as making sure to thank those that serve me (store clerks, waiters, etc.) and by pointing out to my daughter all the good things in our lives (yes, she is probably too young to understand but I want it to be a habit). I take time to think about and offer up thanks for the abundance in my life, and I really believe that because I do notice and I am grateful, more comes to me to be grateful for.

Does that make sense?

So, on that note, the things I am VERY VERY VERY Grateful for this week include:
1. Finally feeling good after several weeks of being sick. Having some energy is a really nice thing.
2. I moved into my new work office and it's very nice. It's pleasant, light, and efficient, plus it is in a nice building, with convenient parking and mountain dew on tap. Really, could work get any better that this?
3. Amazing family and wonderful friends, both old and new, who make me laugh, make good things great, keep me moving forward, and bring out the best in me. Thanks, ya'all. Love you THIS much!
4. A very exciting opportunity at work has presented itself to me, and I'm all over it. I'm so grateful to have the chance to do something that really excites me and makes coming to work so fun (well, fun for me, but I'm kind of a geek)!
5. Finally, I have some time this weekend to myself to "fill up the well". Although I have a lot going on otherwise, I'm looking forward to taking some time to myself to be nice to me. I work hard and I deserve it. And I'm grateful to be in a place where I can recognize the truth of those words.

As always, i recognize the great things in my life and honor them by taking some time to blog about them.

What about you? What are you grateful for?

Letting Go

Closing my eyes, taking a deep breath, and letting go of...

* the idea that I need to know exactly what is going to happen tomorrow, a week from now, a year from now, or ten years from now
* the belief that I have any control over the choices others make
* the worry that I am not enough
* the fear of making another bad choice
* the anxiety that creeps up when I remember it's not just my feelings that are at stake
* the instinct to close down, to protect myself from being hurt again
* the attachment to the outcome

Just one of those days

Right after her bath.....she wouldn't let me wash her hair, either.

You know how they say you shouldn't pray for patience or you will be sent something (someone) to teach you?

Well, I didn't.

But apparently the Big Guy decided I needed to learn it anyway.

Riley has been a MONSTER today! Adorable, but a complete and total crazy child! She woke up hollering "mom!mom!mom!mom!" and didn't stop demanding complete and total attention until she fell asleep. Church was a nightmare, she didn't take one single nap, and she has totally destroyed my house.

Now I'm trying to get on top of things so I can start out the week on a clean slate and I'm finding little bits of evidence of the way she spent her day.

Examples:
*a dog water bowl full of small riley toys ( I guess she thought they needed a bath?)
*a pile of chewed up gold-fish crackers under the coffee table (guess she didn't want the calories? or maybe she was testing them out for the best tasting one?)
*her baby doll in the washing machine (I guess she thought it needed a bath, too?)
*the remote control stuffed under the couch cushions (she hides things there occasionally)
*The tray of her walker full of milk (she learned how to squeeze the spout of her sippy to dump the contents)
*graham crackers crumbled up in my purse (perhaps she was worried I might be hungry)
*her shoes in the dishtowel drawer ( I wondered where they went to)

Here is the scary thing about all this...I didn't leave her alone AT ALL today. Not for one second! She did all of this while I WAS IN THE ROOM WITH HER!

I'm in for it....I'm so in for it.....

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Gratitude Friday

I've kind of slacked off lately on writing my "gratitude friday" post (blame it on sickness and Halloween) so today I'm back in the game. I really do find it helpful to take a few minutes and focus on the many good things I have going for me.

I have many, many things to be grateful for lately. A quick list:

1. Last weekend was spent in Idaho with my family, and the rest, relaxation and peace that came out of it have done so much to help me pull myself out of the slump I've been in. Sleeping in (thanks again, keith and jamie), time with my nieces, a special gift, and some much needed advice have done wonders to ease my mind and make me re-affirm the things I need to be focusing on right now.

2. The very cold weather here has reminded me to be thankful for a warm, comfortable home, a safe vehicle and my ability to provide for myself and Riley.

3. I am very grateful for my wonderful friends and my amazing family, who have been incredibly kind, supportive and uplifting. I'm also grateful for the new friends i've been making and old ones that I've recently been in contact with. This life is all about connections, and I'm lucky to have such great ones!

4. VERY happy that the U pulled it together in the last two minutes in their win over TCU. Next game, BYU. BSC, here we come!

5. Finally, as always, I am so grateful to have the incredible opportunity to be a mom and to have my daughter in my life. She just delights me in so many ways and I can't imagine my life without her in it. Love you, Bug.

Please, please, please.....VOTE!

I don't usually step on my soapbox on this blog, but I do want to remind everyone (like anyone with any access to any form of media could forget) to get out and VOTE today.

There is a lot at stake in this election. A lot of important issues are at hand, a lot of pressing concerns need to be addressed. The Economy...The Iraq War...Healthcare...the 2nd amendment...Education...The Environment...

The list of concerns and issues could go on and on, and it's up to us to make our voice heard by getting out and casting a ballot. Everyone has, at one time or another, complained about some issue that is being addressed by this electon. In my opinion, you don't have the right to bitch about things if you can't at least show up at the polls.

I don't care what you believe in. I don't care who you vote for. JUST VOTE!

Tagged by my Frister....

I don't usually do these, but I was tagged my my prego with twins sister, so I gotta. Her pregnancy hormones scare me.


8 Favorite TV shows

1. The Office
2. What Not to Wear
3. Army Wives (i know, i know...lame)
4. Sportscenter (yes, I watch it every day)
5. Gilmore Girls (I love it, one of my all time faves)
6. I can't think of any more
7. I don't have time to watch tv
8. Sorry
   

8 Favorite Restaurants
1. My house (i'm a pretty gook cook - who knew?)
2. Mazza
3. Citrus Grill
4. Bombay house
5. I can't think of any others
6. Whole Foods Salad Bar (does this count?)
7. I like sushi, but not from any particular place
8. Oh, I know...Fries from LeBeau's


8 Things that happened yesterday
1. I slept in while Keith and Jamie kept Riley entertained (I *heart* them so much for this!)
2. I took Hallee, Lexi, and Riley to Artic Circle for lunch
3. I hung out at my Aunt Shannon's while Riley entertained everyone there
4. I ate most of Lexi's tootsie rolls
5. Dinner at my mom's
6. I watched the TinkerBell movie with Lexi and Hallee and Riley
7. I put gas in my jeep and was amazed at how cheap it seems now!
8. I took a LOOOONG bath in Jamie's gigantic bathtub

8 Things I look forward to
1. Going to the gym tomorrow and getting back into my workout after being sick FOREVER
2. Thursday, when my new boots will arrive carried by a nice person in brown
3. My Twinner Nephews
4. Visiting my friends in Logan soon (Cam-we need a date!)
5. TCU/UU football game this Thursday
6. Upcoming zen trip with my friend
7. Phone session with my writing coach this week
8. My cough finally completely going away

8 Things I love about fall

1. College Football
2. Professional Football
   
3. Changing leaves
4. sweater weather
5. halloween
6. Jeans and flipflops (perfect combo)
7. butternut squash soup
8. New season of the office
   

8 Things on my wishlist

1. black boots kinda like my new brown boots but a little different
   
2. someone to paint riley's room for me
3. New bike shoes
4. Clean car
   
5. pedicure
6. someone to grocery shop for me. Every week. or whenever I need to go
   
7. My frister to move to SLC for affordable housing
8. I'm not writing details here but there is a big wish on my list that i'm working/hoping/waiting/wondering on. "nuff said.