Monday, September 20, 2010

Lessons I keep learning



I've been doing a lot of personal writing over the summer; processing different situations, examining the stories in my head, exploring different relationships. I've been re-reading and editing over the past few days and now that most pieces of the whole are laid out before me, I'm starting to see a few themes, a few ideas I can work with. It's been very therapeutic to just let all the words and emotions out, let them cascade until there is nothing left. This is where I find that the real work is, making sense of the various artifacts that a life full of experience and relationships leaves behind.

Most of this is too personal and raw to share here (and likely boring to anyone other than me) but there have been a few lessons learned that I think are worthwhile to pass along. Of course, you already know this stuff, but here are a few of the lessons I keep learning, over and over again.

I am stronger than I ever realized.
And so are you.

I am braver than I ever realized.
And so are you.

There are people who love me, who have my back.
And people who love you and have yours.

My story matters.
And so does yours.

I have the power to make my life look exactly how I want it to.
And so do you.

I can trust in myself.
And so can you.

I can trust in others.
And so can you.

I am held by something much bigger than myself.
And so are you.

I am responsible for my own happiness.
And you are responsible for yours.

I can keep getting up, keeping dusting myself off, and keep moving forward.
And so can you.

5 comments:

lindsey said...

to dusting ourselves off - i LOVE that!

xo

Jennifer said...

all of your words are so very true. Why is it so easy for us to believe these things about others but we struggle to believe them in ourselves?

Isn't it amazing what you are able to see when you go back and read some of the things you wrote? This is one of my favorite things to do with myself. My words come back to me in a whole different way.

Keep stretching yourself.

Natalie said...

The therapy found in writing! Simple words, but they brought me to tears. Exactly what I needed to hear today.

amy gretchen said...

thank you for this, after such a weird week I needed this. i need to remember it's ok to learn lessons over and over and over. xoxo

Anonymous said...

Ditto to G$. Big time ditto!

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